Comments on: Why Are You Single? Perhaps It’s The Choice Effect http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/2010/06/09/choice-effect-why-are-you-single/ Tim Ferriss's 4-Hour Workweek and Lifestyle Design Blog Thu, 09 Feb 2012 12:39:38 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: OneLifeTime http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/2010/06/09/choice-effect-why-are-you-single/comment-page-1/#comment-120342 OneLifeTime Fri, 27 Jan 2012 20:16:47 +0000 http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/?p=2789#comment-120342 I've had more partners, jobs and homes than I've ever wanted at 24. I have been looking and working to find stability since I was super young but the right choices have been there to choose. I suppose I'm a choister because none of the choices I've had have been right for me. I can't date someone who doesn't want to date and I'm way to loving to not get a little something but it's not right, just like the jobs and the homes. It's driving me crazy! I’ve had more partners, jobs and homes than I’ve ever wanted at 24. I have been looking and working to find stability since I was super young but the right choices have been there to choose. I suppose I’m a choister because none of the choices I’ve had have been right for me. I can’t date someone who doesn’t want to date and I’m way to loving to not get a little something but it’s not right, just like the jobs and the homes. It’s driving me crazy!

]]> By: Jerrell Angry http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/2010/06/09/choice-effect-why-are-you-single/comment-page-1/#comment-115037 Jerrell Angry Tue, 20 Dec 2011 13:01:59 +0000 http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/?p=2789#comment-115037 Spot on with this write-up, I truly assume this web site wants rather more consideration. I’ll most likely be again to learn far more, thanks for that info. Spot on with this write-up, I truly assume this web site wants rather more consideration. I’ll most likely be again to learn far more, thanks for that info.

]]> By: Femi A http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/2010/06/09/choice-effect-why-are-you-single/comment-page-1/#comment-110643 Femi A Tue, 01 Nov 2011 15:38:33 +0000 http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/?p=2789#comment-110643 To I.M. Wright, Thank you, Thank you, Thank you for reminding us that a relationship is about "we" not "me". "A relationship isn’t about being happy yourself. A relationship is about being happy together. Even better, a relationship is about being happier together, than you can ever be alone". I love this universal truth. It is true in all cultures and ages. If everyone posting pauses to reflect on this we shall see that it is a simple but absolute principal which is all one needs to know what a good relationship is. While thinking of finding the right person we should consider being the kind of person worthy of that God/Goddess we somehow have decided that we deserve. If we haven't gotten the perfect person yet maybe it's because we aren't good enough to attract that kind of person yet. Thanks again. To I.M. Wright,

Thank you, Thank you, Thank you for reminding us that a relationship is about “we” not “me”.

“A relationship isn’t about being happy yourself. A relationship is about being happy together. Even better, a relationship is about being happier together, than you can ever be alone”. I love this universal truth. It is true in all cultures and ages. If everyone posting pauses to reflect on this we shall see that it is a simple but absolute principal which is all one needs to know what a good relationship is.

While thinking of finding the right person we should consider being the kind of person worthy of that God/Goddess we somehow have decided that we deserve. If we haven’t gotten the perfect person yet maybe it’s because we aren’t good enough to attract that kind of person yet.

Thanks again.

]]> By: Lex C http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/2010/06/09/choice-effect-why-are-you-single/comment-page-1/#comment-109747 Lex C Fri, 14 Oct 2011 17:25:13 +0000 http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/?p=2789#comment-109747 Thanks so much for this, I never could get any proper advice for this “condition” of mine, because I’d start explaining what was plaguing me (the yummy potential ‘other-choices’ and all that) and everyone would just look at me as though I was mad! This article really helped :) think I’ll be picking up that book as well! Thanks so much for this, I never could get any proper advice for this “condition” of mine, because I’d start explaining what was plaguing me (the yummy potential ‘other-choices’ and all that) and everyone would just look at me as though I was mad! This article really helped :) think I’ll be picking up that book as well!

]]> By: Tyler Carter http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/2010/06/09/choice-effect-why-are-you-single/comment-page-1/#comment-108318 Tyler Carter Mon, 26 Sep 2011 01:42:13 +0000 http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/?p=2789#comment-108318 I just did the same thing! I just did the same thing!

]]>